Sunday, March 30, 2025

Demi Moore 懼裂 2025 全球獎品後

黛咪摩爾靠著在【懼裂】中想盡辦法回春的過氣女星角色,奪下2025金球獎影后。演戲演了將近半世紀,首次獲得獎項肯定,真的是很感人的瞬間。

雖然上台第一句話還是『我真的沒想到』,但從致詞的精彩程度、以及精準的用字跟語氣,聽得出來她等了45年的這一刻,絕對是有備而來。

就算不是演員,身為一個中年男子,也能從她的致詞中找到共鳴。除了外界的評價,我覺得最大的心魔,反而是自己內心的聲音:

『或許我這輩子就這樣子了吧』

『能做的或許都已經做了』

『我的能力就只到這裡』

要走還是要留,從某個更高的視角來看,或許都很好。而且我們更多人的人生達到里程碑,還不會像演員一樣有獎項肯定,更要記得,要自己頒獎給自己。

來看看Demi Moore說了什麼。

Oh wow. I really wasn’t expecting that. I’m just in shock right now.

哇 我真的沒預期到。我現在很震驚。

I’ve been doing this a long time, like over 45 years,

我從事演員這一行已經很久了,超過 45 年

and this is the first time I’ve ever won anyTHING as an actor.

是我第一次以演員身份贏得任何東西(thing還加了重音,表示大大小小的任何東西,真的一個都沒有喔)

Thirty years ago, I had a producer tell me that I was a ‘popcorn actress’

30 年前,一位製片人曾對我說我是「爆米花演員」

I could do movies that were successful, that made a lot of money,

我可以拍商業成功的電影,票房很好

but that I couldn’t be acknowledged,

但我不會獲得認可

and I bought in and I believed that.

別人這樣告訴我,我也就信了。

a few years ago, I thought maybe this was it.

幾年前我還想,或許就這樣了吧

Maybe I was complete. Maybe I would—I’d done what I was supposed to do.

或許我的演藝生涯已經完結,我能做的,都已經做了。

And as I was at kind of a low point, I had this magical, bold, courageous, out-of-the-box, absolutely bonkers script come across my desk called The Substance.

就在我處於低谷時,這個魔幻的、大膽的、勇敢的、跳脫框架的、徹底瘋狂的劇本【懼裂】,出現在我桌上

the universe told me that you’re not done

宇宙告訴我,你還沒有結束

In those moments when we don’t think we’re smart enough or pretty enough, or skinny enough or successful enough,

當我們認為自己不夠聰明、不夠漂亮、不夠瘦、不夠成功的時候

I had a woman say to me, ‘Just know, you will never be enough.

有位女士對我說:你要知道,你沒辦法讓全世界都覺得你夠好

But you can know the value of your worth

但你能知道自己的價值

if you just put down the measuring stick.’

只要你放下量尺

so today I celebrate this as a marker of my wholeness

所以今天我把獎項視為我完整的標誌

and of the love that is driving me and for the gift of doing something I love

也象徵驅使我前進的愛、做我所愛的天賦

and being reminded that I do belong.

也會一直提醒著我 我屬於這裡

#金球獎

#英語學習

#雙語主持

#英文主播

#男主持人

Sunday, March 16, 2025

20250316 斷捨離真的太掙扎


三月的14,15日將堆積了好幾年的樣品工廠的樣本一箱一箱的轉給朋友那一盒一盒的樣品緞帶是我曾經編織著夢想一舉一絕用心拍攝的樣品曾經從對緞帶的一知半解到慢慢地摸索出它的材質用處將它拍成美美的相片做成目錄展現給客戶客戶也是回報了一些訂單十幾年來的成果累積下來的樣品一直都捨不得送給人家雖然我沒有辦法在經營這些小生意,但是我還是沒辦法割捨掉這些陪伴我走過無數歲月的美麗緞帶這兩天我向他們告別轉給了朋友,希望他們能夠在以最漂亮的姿態呈現讓更多的小商家喜歡他們這也是重新塑造他們的生命價值斷捨離真的是很難我小心翼翼地又拿了一些緞帶起來,我希望再把它們保留一段時間等到我可以完全不想他們的時候我在將他們轉送給別人,也感謝這些小緞帶讓我的生命更多彩多姿。

斷捨離後斷捨離後心情變得格外的輕鬆東西減少了減輕那一些負擔這些東西重新塑造他們的價值轉送給一些需要的人斷修理真的是一個很難的課題在未來的日子裡我還會再繼續斷捨離就像交朋友一樣有一些朋友根本不在乎你或者也沒想要過關心你就斷捨離吧,真心對待你的朋友好好的對待他們,因為那些才是值得你交往的朋友2025-0316


On March 14th and 15th, I handed over boxes of samples from the factory piled up for several years to my friends. Those boxes of sample ribbons were the samples that I had woven with my dreams. I slowly figured out the material and use of ribbons, and I took beautiful photos of them and made catalogs to show them to my customers. The customers also gave me some orders in return. Over the past decade, I have been reluctant to give away the accumulated samples. Although I can no longer run these small businesses, I still There is no way to give up these beautiful ribbons that have accompanied me through countless years. I said goodbye to them and gave them to my friends these two days, hoping that they can be presented in the most beautiful posture so that more small businesses will like them. This is also to reshape their life value. It is really difficult to let go. I carefully picked up some ribbons. I hope to keep them for a while. When I can completely miss them, I will pass them on to others. I am also grateful for these small ribbons that make my life more colorful.


After letting go, I feel extra relaxed. I have less stuff and have lightened some of the burdens. I reshape the value of these things and pass them on to those who need them. It is really a difficult subject. I will continue to let go in the future. Just like making friends, some friends don’t care about you at all or don’t want to care about you. Just let go. Treat your friends sincerely and treat them well, because those are the friends worth associating with. 2025-0316


實際上英語中沒有一個單字可以完美地符合「斷捨離」一詞,但以下單字有相似的意思:

 ・decluttering

 它是「declutter(整理)」的動名詞。

雖然斷捨離有很深的含義,但這詞只是簡單地表示整理,所以我們可以用於表達斷捨離的意思。

另外還有一個「clutter(雜亂)」的單字同樣能表達一樣的概念。

 ・minimalism

 minimalism」是表示丟掉不必要的物品,或是不購物的斷捨離,代表只需要最少的物品來呈現其生活方式。

 ・simple living

 雖然它與「minimalism」類似,但我們可以用「simple living」來解說斷捨離,也就是消除浪費、追求簡單的生活。

順帶一提,近藤麻理惠的書籍和整理方法在全球風靡一時,雖然這並非整理的意思,但英語圈也開始使用「KonMari method」這個表達

Danshari is a Japanese neologism referring to a form of systematic decluttering and optimization of the things in a home, and is composed of the words dan (refuse), sha (dispose) and ri (separate).

Danshari is a Japanese concept that is getting popular.

斷捨離是一個正流行的日本概念。

 Danshari means cleaning or tidying up.

斷捨離代表清潔和整理。

 I don’t know what Danshari means.

我不知道斷捨離的意思。

 I have never tried Danshari.

我從來沒有嘗試過斷捨離。

 Why do a lot of people do Danshari?

為什麼這麼多人在斷捨離?

Monday, March 3, 2025

《愛的復甦計畫》

春美 2/27/2025 俊毅 死亡後的明白,節錄自《愛的復甦計畫》224頁。作者譚瑞琪。你們其實真的不要為我哭泣,我跟你說,我出生以來從沒有像此時此刻這般喜悅,沒有了那副沉重的身體,我舒服太多了。我們都被自己騙了,以為死亡很恐怖,但你知道嗎?我一點痛苦的感覺都沒有,唯一的不捨是看見家人傷心難過,這會讓我很不忍心。我摯愛的太太和孩子,還有那麼多老朋友,謝謝你們給我的快樂時光,我已經非常滿足了。告訴大家死亡不痛苦,不要為死亡哭泣,我們只有經歷死亡才能回家。這裡反而是我更熟悉的家,到了這邊我才明白地球那裡是我給自己安排的一趟旅程,就像一小段夢境而已,我在這夢裡的經歷是我早已排定的劇情。現在走完回到這裡,我才知道是怎麼回事。我們不論生或死都會一直存在只是出生時,我們走進自己編織的夢裡,死亡後就回到原本清醒的自己。我在這裡一切都好,替我好好的跟我太太說我謝謝她這一世的陪伴。我愛她會一直守護著她和孩子,請她不要太常生氣,也不要太苛求完美。她是我見過最聰明又有才華的女人,我很幸運這輩子能有她作為伴侶

Saturday, March 1, 2025

New encounter

It’s spring, smell the air of Spring

I was trying to move new parents to new home it’s a big job even though it’s hotter for my niece and my older but I was so happy that I have a new home. It’s a new New encounter new renewal, new life new price they will continue blooming in this new place. 20250228

Saturday, February 22, 2025

Getting older is not for the weak

 


"Getting older is not for the weak. One day, you wake up and realize that youth is behind you, but with it, insecurities, haste, and the need to please also fade away. You walk more slowly but with greater confidence. You learn to let go without fear and to cherish those who stay. Aging is about acceptance; it is discovering that beauty was never in the skin but in the story we carry within us."

- Meryl Streep

Tuesday, February 11, 2025

2025 元宵節燈謎數學系出題

今年台大的猜燈謎,交由數學系出題,讓中文系教授們也目瞪口呆,真是山外有山啊!

1.謎題:0000

謎底:四大皆空

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2.謎題:0+0=0

謎底:一無所獲

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3.謎題:0+0=1

謎底:無中生有

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4.謎題:1×1=1

謎底:一成不變

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5.謎題:1的n次方

謎底:始終如一

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6.謎題:1:1

謎底:不相上下

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7.謎題:1/2

謎底:一分為二

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8.謎題:1+2+3

謎底:接二連三

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9.謎題:3.4

謎底:不三不四

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10.謎題:33.22

謎底:三三两两

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11.謎題:2/2

謎底:合二為一

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12.謎題:20÷3

謎底:陸續不斷

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13.謎題:1=365

謎底:度日如年

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14.謎題:9寸加1寸

謎底:得寸進尺

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15.謎題:1÷100

謎底:百裡挑一

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16.謎題:333,555

謎底:三五成群

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17.謎題:5,10

謎底:一五一十

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18.謎題:1,2,3,4,5

謎底:屈指可數

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19.謎題:1,2,3,4,5,6,0,9

謎底:七零八落

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20.謎題:1,2,4,6,7,8,9,10

謎底:隔三差五

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21.謎題:2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9

謎底:缺衣少食

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22.謎題:7/8

謎底:七上八下

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23.謎題:2,4,6,8

謎底:無獨有偶

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24.謎題:4,3

謎底:顛三倒四

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Friday, January 17, 2025

20250117Travel to northeast

宜蘭是一個美的線,很想再來,雖然這次中午魚有機會來到宜蘭礁溪住一晚一大早高台北然後轉搭普悠瑪到礁溪頭城的時候看到圓圓的龜山島很是感動好友夫妻到礁溪的車站和我們會合,然後我們就一起用走路的到民宿喝茶聊天真的太久沒看到了一轉眼都過了15年雖然很久沒有相遇,但是聊起天來還是非常的投入好像老朋友一樣有很多故事可以分享 在能有好朋友可以開講分享以前有趣的是,真的是人生中很快樂的事,原來朋友以前在學校上課的時候還有機會到美國學了兩年 又有機會讓公司外派到法國學習法文人生有很多機會要把握,如果錯失了就沒有機會了。 呼吸的退休生活搭配得很好參加社團沒有很忙碌的生活,慢慢地減緩步調先生也分享了我們相遇的故事,他講起來總是那麼的精彩讓人家聽了很像是在看一齣精彩的連續劇

朋友夫妻實在大學認識的,也是班上的同學一路走來兩個互相扶持先生會掩飾英雄支持老婆當上會上的總會長他們之前的相處之道才是我要學習的夫妻的退休生活是那麼的精彩平凡的生活從他們的應對中就可以知道非常的幸福美好的婚姻也需要靠好好的經營。

晚上到湯唯公購物那裡吃了我最喜歡吃的蔥油餅均勻的年輕人,因為她媽媽以前都在這裡賣蔥油餅媽媽生病了,所以她從台北回來幫媽媽經營這一家蔥油餅店他的阿姨也來這家店阿姨年輕的時候離開宜蘭到台北工作轉眼間30年了,做過鑰匙傷的代表還有貿易看到風光的背後其實還有一段隱藏的故事會離開的時候他的阿姨跟我們一起走到轉運站,阿姨才透漏說原來他是和先生一起開貿易公司,但是先生到大陸經營又喜歡上一個大陸人,將他所有的賺得錢都捲走阿姨最後全身而退離開了他的先生不要在他們和他們有任何瓜葛展開一段新的生活要做這麼大的決定相信他的內心一定非常的掙扎,但是放手他才能夠得到心靈真正的自由也因為放手他才能能夠展開他的新生活看起來阿姨也有他的人生哲學有空就和自己的好朋友到國內去組團到國內玩或到國外去玩開創自己的人生為什麼要為了一個復興的人整天從沒哭臉或傷心流眼淚放下自己就可以開始重新自己的心生活。