Saturday, December 24, 2022

去爱吧,就像不曾受过伤一样 By 艾佛列德·德索萨

《去爱吧》——艾佛列德·德索萨


Love like you've never been hurt .

Dance like nobody's watching.

Sing like nobody's listening.

work like you don't need the money .

Live like it's heaven on earth.

--------Alfred D’Souza

去爱吧,就像不曾受过伤一样
跳舞吧,像没有人会欣赏一样
唱歌吧,像没有人会聆听一样
干活吧,像是不需要金钱一样
生活吧,就像今天是末日一样

to love, like never been hurt
to dance,like no one appreciate
to sing, like no one listen to
to work, like no need of money
to life, like today is the end
.

——Alfred D’Souza 


题图 Hayakawa Yasuko

出处及原文:

We always convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, than another.

Then we are frustrated that the kids are not old enough and well be more content when they are.

After that were frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with.

We will certainly be happy when they are out of that stage.

We always tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together.

When we get a nice a car, and are able to go on a nice vocation when we retire.

The truth is, there's no better time than right now. if not now, when?

Our life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to ourselves and decide to be happy anyway.


One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred Souza.

He said."for a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin-real life.

But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through firest, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid.

Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life."

This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness.


Happiness is the way.

So treasure every moment that you have. And remember that time waits for no one.

So stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school; until you get married, until you get divorced; until you have kids; until you retire; until you get a new car or home; until spring; until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy….


Happiness is a journey, not a destination.

So, work like you don't need money, love like you've never been hurt, And dance like no one's watching.


中文译文:


我们总是相信,等我们结了婚,生了孩子,生活会更美好。

等有了孩子,我们又因为他们不够大而烦恼,想等他们大些时,我们就会开心了。

可等他们进入青少年时期,我们还是同样的苦恼,于是又相信等他们过了这一阶段,幸福就会到来。


我们总是告诉自己,等夫妻间任一方肯于合作,等我们拥有更好的车,等我们能去度一次美妙的假期,等我们退休后,我们的生活一定会完美的。

而事实的真相是,没有任何时刻比现在更宝贵。

倘若不是现在,又会是何时?

我们的生活每时每刻都会有挑战。最好是让自己接受这一事实,无论如何使自己保持快乐的心境。


我很欣赏艾尔弗雷德·苏泽的一段名言。

他说:“长期以来,我都觉得生活——真正的生活似乎即将开始。

可是总会遇到某种障碍,如得先完成一些事情。

没做完的工作,要奉献的时间,该付的债,等等。

之后生活才会开始。最后我醒悟过来了,这些障碍本身就是我的生活。”

这一观点让我意识到没有什么通往幸福的道路。

幸福本身就是路。

所以,珍惜你拥有的每一刻,且记住时不我待,

不要再作所谓的等待——等你上完学,等你再回到学校;

等你结婚或离婚;

等你有了孩子或孩子长大离开家;

等你开始工作或等你退休;等你有了新车或新房;

等春天来临;

等你有幸再来世上走一遭才明白此时此刻最应快乐……

幸福是一个旅程,不是终点站。所以,投入地工作吧,就像你根本不需要钱;尽情去爱吧,就像你从未被伤害过;纵情地起舞吧,就像根本无人观望。


Friday, September 23, 2022

Inspired quotes- Leader 9/23/2022

 Before you are a leader, success is all about growing

yourself.  After you become a leader, success is about growing others."


2. Where there is no vision, the people perish. —Proverbs 29:18

Perish-to die, especially in an accident or by being killed, or to be destroyed

perecer
Three hundred people perished in the earthquake.

3. I must follow the people. Am I not their leader? —Benjamin Disraeli

4. You manage things; you lead people. —Rear Admiral Grace Murray Hopper

5. The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant. —Max DePree

6. Leadership is the capacity to translate vision into reality. —Warren Bennis

Saturday, August 20, 2022

How To Stop Negative Behaviors And Strengthen Your Mind 20220820

 

Brain Surgeon’s Advice On How To Stop Negative Behaviors And Strengthen Your Mind



Friday, August 19, 2022

Wisdom Bread Marie Forleo - Everything is figureoutable

無論你此刻正在經歷著什麼 ► 這句話都可成為你的座右銘 - Marie Forleo 瑪莉.佛萊奧(中英字幕)

It's not that big of a deal  這又沒有什麼大不了的 
Nothing in life is that complicated 人生沒那麼複雜
You can set anything you set your mind to,
If you roll up your sleeves 只要捲起袖子動手去做
You get in there and you do it. 什麼都難不倒你你
"Everything is figure-outable"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YFXf78jrGq4



無論你此刻正在經歷著什麼這句話都可成為你的座右銘 - Marie Forleo 瑪莉.佛萊奧(中英字幕)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YFXf78jrGq4

It's not that big of a deal  這又沒有什麼大不了的 

Nothing in life is that complicated 人生沒那麼複雜

You can set anything you set your mind to,

If you roll up your sleeves 只要捲起袖子動手去做

You get in there and you do it. 什麼都難不倒你你

"Everything is figure-outable"

"Everything is figureoutable."  「凡事皆有出路」

Whether she said

those three words or that’s what my childhood brain translated because you know how we do that kind of thing but that phrase got embedded in my soul in such a deep level and I just

但這句話已深深地鑲入了我的靈魂said it over and over again like from continuing to

get rejected on like sports teams and cheerleading and going again and again and like getting out of an abusive relationship to getting every part-time I’ve ever gotten every full-time job I’ve ever gotten building the entire business like I still use that phrase every single day I realized as I became adult it’s been the single biggest driving force of my life.

“Everything is figureoutable”


人生沒那麼複雜,捲起袖子動手去做,凡事都有出路

從影片中我理解到的是:只要邁出第一步,凡事總有辦法解決。 不要局限自己,那只會妨礙你成長

許多看起來不容易的事,當我們去學習,嘗試時就跨出了第一步,我就開始學會了,人生是這樣走出來的,所以不要害怕


人生無遐爾仔複雜,只要你共手䘼撆起來,勇敢去做,啥物代誌攏有好的出路。我的感想就是講只要你勇敢踏出你的跤步,啥物代誌攏會解決的。毋通共家己限制牢咧,按呢會阻礙你的學習佮成長。真濟看起來真困難的代誌,只要咱認真去學習,毋免驚勇敢踏出你的跤步,咱的人生就是按呢行出來的,嘛會愈行愈順利。



 

Wednesday, August 17, 2022

Motivation Ark 10 Minutes to Start Your Day Right! -20220818

Embracing the morning by listening Motivation Ark

10 Minutes to Start Your Day Right! -


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fo6oU4DfdH0

4:51 And you get no credit messing in somebody else's territory.
or trying to have power over something you have no control. Another one of my favorite teachings is the Wizard of Oz, when the wicked witch of the West says go away from here because you don't have any power here. You have no power in any territory other than your own. Oh, but you are the master of that
You get to be the master of your own fate. You get to be the captain of your own soul. And if you just manage that, if you just take care of your territory, all the glorious, glorious, glorious, wondrous, wondrous opportunities and possibilities that are waiting for you. So the question is, what are your resisting? What are you pushing against? What are you not allowing? Because you have the idea of who and what you're supposed to be instead of leaning into the dream that's already been created and waiting for you, it's waiting for you

Some important key points to remember:
1. You have a bigger dream waiting for you, just waiting for you to step in. 2. What you put out is what's coming back. 3. Your intention is going to determine the outcome. 

4. You get to be the master of your own fate. 


Daily Motivation to Study
"Some people thrive on huge, dramatic change. Some people prefer the slow and steady route. Do what's right for you." - Julie Morgenstern

Just amazing....this just puts you in the mindset of motivation and inspiration to get up and concur anything. Anything is possible for you for when you just do it!!! 

Monday, August 15, 2022

20220816 Nothing can bring you peach

 Nothing can bring you

peace but yourself.


A smart man knows what to say
A wise man knows whether or not to say 


8/16/2022





Life is like a roller coaster 20220816

 Life is like a roller coaster.  It has its ups and downs..., but it's your choice to either scream or enjoys the ride.  Be positive and enjoy the ride.


Life is a rollercoaster ride:

experience the thrills, scream when you have to,

and enjoy the ride


Just close your eyes and enjoy the Roller Coaster ~

that is ~life - Zayn Malix